When it comes to anger, there are natural dilemmas that exist when dealing with how you do or don’t express it. Many people who have issues with anger do so because they feel, or the partner feels, that it’s not okay to be angry. And because there is no allowed outlet provided for their upset, things build to an extreme point much more quickly than if there had been permission to experience and display negative emotions (frustration, disappointment, etc.). The Bible states that “In your anger do not sin,” (Ephesians 4:26a) and, along these lines, one of the central concepts of conflict resolution is that it’s okay to feel and express your upset as long as you do it appropriately - ideally, in a way that creates understanding, not does further damage. One of the primary purposes of this book is to not only show better ways to express potential upset, but how to maintain a healthy relationship where, if you follow the guidelines, discussions are unlikely to ever turn into fights.
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“Conflict Resolution for Christian Couples” is written in a comprehensive, easy-to-understand, and logical progression that maps out how to have a healthy relationship - one where conflict can be readily managed. The book has solid answers and strategies for Christian couples having difficulties working out reasonable solutions. This book consists of four parts. Part I is about establishing a spiritually healthy foundation for the relationship: 1) knowing the basics of Biblical knowledge, prayer, fellowship and ministry, and 2) taking into account the spiritual world, and respecting the balance between grace and accountability. Part Ii details a useful conflict resolution model and itemizes 26 effective tools (the Abc's) for moving smoothly through issues. Part Iii provides a 3-part solution model for mapping out a plan for change, and discusses healthy routines for maintaining change. Part Iv addresses two unique dilemmas for long-term relationships: 1) affair recovery or affair safe-guarding, and 2) considering or going through a marital separation.
Paul Shaffer has a Master's degree in Clinical Psychology and is a Licensed Professional Counselor in North Carolina. He has worked with adults, couples, families, and children as a professional counselor for 30 years. At present, he continues in private practice in Huntersville, NC. The practice is called Right Choices Counseling.
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Paperback. Etat : Very Good. The Just the Tools edition of Conflict Resolution for Couples is an abbreviated version of Paul Shaffer's first book, Conflict Resolution for Couples - originally published in 2005, and then re-published in 2011. This leaner edition cuts to the chase of couple's conflict resolution, without the foundational and special population sections that made the original book a much meatier but time-consuming work. Just the Tools, while a stand-alone title, also serves as a companion book to Paul's Top 10 Marriage Essentials published in 2014 (and the Top 10 Dating Essentials projected for 2015). It retains the same comprehensive, easy-to-understand, and logical progression found in the original. This book consists of essentially two parts: Part I is about the tools for resolution. It presents a model for managing conflict and itemizes 26 guidelines (the ABC's of conflict resolution) for identifying, validating, processing and resolving issues. Part I discusses strategies for change. It focuses on initiating and maintaining change, understanding lack of change, and healthy routines to support lasting change. N° de réf. du vendeur CIN1425966314VG
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Taschenbuch. Etat : Neu. nach der Bestellung gedruckt Neuware - Printed after ordering - When it comes to anger, there are natural dilemmas that exist when dealing with how you do or don't express it. Many people who have issues with anger do so because they feel, or the partner feels, that it's not okay to be angry. And because there is no allowed outlet provided for their upset, things build to an extreme point much more quickly than if there had been permission to experience and display negative emotions (frustration, disappointment, etc.). The Bible states that 'In your anger do not sin,' (Ephesians 4:26a) and, along these lines, one of the central concepts of conflict resolution is that it's okay to feel and express your upset as long as you do it appropriately - ideally, in a way that creates understanding, not does further damage. One of the primary purposes of this book is to not only show better ways to express potential upset, but how to maintain a healthy relationship where, if you follow the guidelines, discussions are unlikely to ever turn into fights. N° de réf. du vendeur 9781425966317
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