Is there a secret to leading a lifestyle of constant forgiveness? Yes, there is. In this book you will learn how to be fortified to forgive others daily. Experience will show that it is not long after forgiving your offender that someone else offends you. This book will equip you with time proven techniques to successfully adopt a forgiving lifestyle and be a happier person. You will also be able to decipher between true and false forgiveness and much more. Learn what to do in the face of provocation and how to handle the hurt, anger, and other emotions that attend offenses. TABLE OF CONTENTS Acknowledgements 5 First Introduction - Dr. Trevor Grizzle 7 Preface 13 Second Introduction - Dr. Tai Ikomi 15 A Lifestyle of Forgiveness 19 1 After Forgiveness, Now What? 21 2 Avoid Volatile Situations 27 3 Forgive Quickly 33 4 Hold a Consistent Quiet Time with God 39 5 Expect to Be Hurt 45 6 Forgive for the Sake of God 51 The Fruit of the Spirit and Forgiveness 57 7 Love, Joy, and Peace 59 8 Longsuffering, Gentleness, Goodness 65 9 Faith, Meekness, Temperance 71 Pretentious Forgiveness 77 10 We Want Our Offender Off Our Back 79 11 We Want to Appear Righteous 85 12 What Forgiveness Does Not Imply 91 Apology 97 13 Reasons People Do Not Want to Apologize Part 1 14 Reasons People Do Not Want to Apologize Part2 Forgiveness Prayer List 111 Salvation Message 115 Bibliography 119 Other Books by Dr. Tai Ikomi THE SYNOPSES OF THE FIRST SIX CHAPTERS 1. After Forgiveness, Now What? What can we expect after we have forgiven our offender? Is it possible to lose the benefits of forgiveness we once enjoyed? In this lesson, you will learn that temptations will indeed arise, but there are ways to hold our ground. 2. Avoid Volatile Situations A forgiveness-driven lifestyle demands that we choose our friendships and relationships wisely. Various situations will bring volatile situations such as differences in temperaments, cultures, upbringing, and worldviews. In this lesson, you will learn how to use wisdom as a shield from danger and unnecessarily volatile situations. 3. Forgive Quickly Striking the iron while it is hot is a practice that applies to leading a lifestyle of forgiveness. Delaying your decision to forgive someone may lead to some repercussions. Conversely, forgiving quickly incurs some benefits. In this lesson, you will explore in detail how to forgive quickly and reap the benefits this practice brings. You will thus avoid the possibility of forgetting without forgiving. 4. Hold a Consistent Quiet Time with God The central question is: How can I find the motivation to constantly forgive on a daily basis? The answer lies in the strength of God. This lesson will examine the importance of a good devotional life and how to cultivate one. You will enjoy the strength that can only come from above and that will help you forgive on a daily basis. 5. Expect to be Hurt Recognizing the reality of an imperfect world ultimately means we need to lead a lifestyle of forgiveness. Forgiveness of fellow men is not required in Heaven; the need to forgive will pass away once we have left the Earth and its imperfections. In this lesson, you will learn how to deal with human frailty through forgiveness like our Savior who paved the path for us. You will learn how to avoid unexpected turmoil due to unanticipated hurts and disappointments. And because you have been on the other side of the fence, where you too have hurt others, you will be ready to forgive others as well. 6. For the Sake of God The obvious question becomes: Why should I forgive? Your motivation to forgive becomes crucial in these moments when every nerve in you is crying out to retaliate and pay back your offender in his own coin. You will learn five powerful ways to hold on to your forgiveness by relying on your reverential view for God. These powerful tools will become your anchor to hold you steady.
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ABOUT THE AUTHOR For the past 18 years, Dr. Tai Ikomi has been sharing her testimony of how she forgave the drunk who killed her husband and three children on an interstate highway Platte city, in Missouri. She travels all over the world sharing the grace of God on her shattered emotions over her tremendous loss and the power to forgive the drunk. Three years after her loss, she published her best seller and first book, His Beauty For My Ashes, an account of how the grace of God healed her wounded spirit and gave her a new lease in life. The book has become a classic book to help people who lose their loved ones. After years of sharing her testimony of forgiveness, she released a book on forgiveness titled, Effective Forgiveness. She just released her most comprehensive work on forgiveness, a 12 volume work titled Forgiveness Discipleship. The work takes a practical at forgiveness and how to weave it into daily living with practical insights and suggestions from Scriptures. A great reading. Dr. Ikomi holds a B.A. degree in French from Universite du Benin, Lome Togo in 1976 and M.A. degree in Theology from Oral Roberts University in 1991. She also holds a doctorate degree in Theology. She has written over 40 books covering various issues of victorious Christian living. Dr. Ikomi speaks in conferences, churches, universities on Forgiveness and other practical issues of the Christian life. She presents the God, who is not only about to comfort us in our affliction but who also can turn any situation around.
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