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Korkie, Juan

 
9781918764017: Why Nothing Changes: What Keeps Couples Stuck

Synopsis

Most people enter couple therapy—or pick up a book like this—wanting one thing: to be proven right, and for the other person to change. That is exactly why nothing ever does.

This book doesn’t offer quick fixes or sentimental advice. It exposes the real mechanics of how relationships break down—the hidden blueprints that shape reactions, the caricatures we create of each other, and the corrosive actions that keep us locked in survival mode.

It isn’t about communication tips or positivity. It’s about seeing what you actually do when you feel unseen, unheard, or unsafe—the habits, defences, and emotional reflexes that keep you circling the same arguments while missing the real conversation underneath.

You can’t control your partner. But you can interrupt your own patterns. And that is where change begins.

Direct and unsparing, this book challenges you to stop rationalising, stop waiting, and start dismantling the cycle that has been running your relationship into the ground. If you want comfort, look elsewhere. If you want change, start here.

Juan Korkie is a clinical psychologist who has spent years in the room with couples, cutting through the stories we tell ourselves and exposing the patterns that keep us stuck. His work is direct, unsanitised, and focused on change where it actually starts—with yourself.

“It is the pattern, not the topic, that keeps us stuck.” Larissa Ernst, Clinical Psychologist

“The part of the work that is actually yours to do.” Christi Gadd, Clinical Psychologist


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