The Second Fight: Why Arguments Repeat and How to End the Rerun - Couverture souple

Hollis, Adrian

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ISBN 10 : 3565599928 ISBN 13 : 9783565599929

Editeur : epubli, 2026

Synopsis

Many couples find themselves trapped in a frustrating loop, having the same argument over and over. They ask, "I thought readers settled this?" believing that every conflict should have a final resolution, a definitive closure. This common expectation, however, is quietly sabotaging relationships. "The Second Fight" delves into the history of this misconception, tracing the desire for closure back to administrative transactions that have no place in human intimacy. It explores why this "myth of the resolved argument" leads to feelings of failure and betrayal when conflicts inevitably resurface. Drawing on landmark research from John Gottman's "Love Lab," author Adrian Hollis reveals a startling truth: 69% of all relationship conflicts are perpetual problems that will never be solved. But this statistic is not a life sentence; it is a map. The book reframes these recurring issues not as bugs, but as core features of a relationship between two unique individuals. By examining the anatomy of these "rerun" arguments, this guide provides a new set of tools—not for ending the fight, but for changing the script. Discover how to transform destructive cycles into moments of profound connection and build a relationship that is stronger, not in spite of its cracks, but because of them.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: epubli
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 10: 3565599928
• ISBN 13: 9783565599929
• Reliure: Broché
• Nombre de pages: 132
• Coordonnées du fabricant: non disponible
• Personne responsable: non disponible