When Home Wasn't Safe: Healing Childhood Trauma, Complex PTSD, and the Emotional Wounds That Follow Us Into Adulthood - Couverture souple

Mercer, Hannah

Couverture souple

ISBN 13 : 9798183939972

Editeur : Independently published, 2026

Synopsis

What if the reason adult life feels so hard isn't that something is wrong with you — but that something happened to you?

You learned to read footsteps in the hallway. You learned which silences meant trouble. You learned to be small, or helpful, or invisible, or perfect — whatever it took to stay safe in a home that wasn't.

That child grew up. But the watchfulness never quite turned off.

If you flinch at a tone of voice, apologise for taking up space, feel flooded by shame you can't trace, or live with a quiet, constant exhaustion that no amount of sleep seems to fix — this book is for you. The patterns you've been carrying are not personality flaws. They are the predictable, understandable aftermath of growing up somewhere that didn't feel safe. And they can change.

When Home Wasn't Safe is a gentle, evidence-informed guide through the long, slow work of healing childhood trauma and Complex PTSD. Across 24 short chapters, you'll discover:

• What developmental trauma actually is — and why "it wasn't that bad" is part of the wound itself
• Why your nervous system reacts the way it does, and how to work with it instead of against it
• The four trauma responses — fight, flight, freeze, and the lesser-known fawn — and which one became your default
• How to recognise emotional flashbacks, and what to do when one arrives
• Practical, body-based tools for regulating your nervous system in the moment
• How to reconnect with your inner child, set boundaries without guilt, and break generational patterns
• What healthy relationships actually feel like — and how to learn to trust yourself again

This is not a clinical textbook, and it is not therapy. It is a steady, compassionate companion for the work of becoming the kind, present adult your younger self always needed.

You survived what happened. Now, page by page, you can begin to do more than survive.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Independently published
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798183939972
• Reliure: Broché
• Nombre de pages: 159
• Coordonnées du fabricant: Printed by Amazon on behalf of the author; https://www.amazon.fr/hz/contact-us; ; c/o Amazon Media EU S.à.r.l., 38 Avenue John F. Kennedy; Luxembourg; L-1855; Luxembourg