30 Truths My Psychologist Told Me About Choosing Myself: 120 Guided Sessions to Stop Abandoning Yourself, Set Boundaries Without Guilt, and Finally Become Your Own Priority - Couverture souple

E. Soler, Adriana

Couverture souple

ISBN 13 : 9798191119083

Editeur : Independently published, 2026

Synopsis

You are the one everyone relies on. You answer the messages, solve the problems, keep the peace, and carry what other people drop.

Then, when you finally need something, you feel guilty for taking up space.

You say yes while your body says no. You explain simple choices as though they are on trial. You worry that one honest boundary will make you selfish, difficult, or unlovable.

You are not alone.

Many caring, capable people learn to disappear in small ways so they can remain useful, accepted, and safe. From the outside, it looks like kindness. On the inside, it can feel like exhaustion, resentment, and the quiet pain of leaving yourself behind.

30 Truths My Psychologist Told Me About Choosing Myself is not another collection of generic affirmations. It is a warm, practical guide for recognizing self-abandonment, understanding why it happens, and learning what to do differently in real life.

Through 120 concise guided sessions, you will learn how to:

• Notice the quiet habits that make you abandon yourself
• Separate uncomfortable guilt from genuine wrongdoing
• Stop overexplaining, rescuing, and earning love through usefulness
• Set boundaries based on what you will do—not on controlling others
• Let people feel disappointed without reversing every honest decision
• Rebuild self-trust through small promises you can actually keep
• Become your own priority without becoming cold, selfish, or uncaring

Each of the 30 truths unfolds through four purposeful stages: a lived moment, the insight that changed it, the practice that made it real, and one clear invitation for your own life.

This is a book to use, not simply read.

Its practical tools and implementation resources include:

• Ready-to-use boundary scripts for family, work, friendship, and love
• Reflection prompts, body checks, comparison exercises, and writing space
• Part check-ins to help you recognize real emotional progress
• “Choose yourself today” actions that turn insight into behavior
• A quick-navigation guide for moments when guilt, fear, grief, or doubt gets loud
• A seven-day Choosing-Myself Reset to help you return gently and begin again

This book is for the person who is tired of being endlessly available, endlessly understanding, and endlessly strong. It is for the person who is ready to stop building peace for everyone except themselves.

You do not need to become harder. You do not need to stop caring.

You need to stop abandoning yourself inside your own life.

Choosing yourself is not selfish. It is how you come back to yourself—one truth, one boundary, and one brave decision at a time.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Independently published
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798191119083
• Reliure: Broché
• Nombre de pages: 144
• Coordonnées du fabricant: Manufactured by Amazon on behalf of the author; https://www.amazon.fr/hz/contact-us; ; c/o Amazon Media EU S.à.r.l., 38 Avenue John F. Kennedy; Luxembourg; L-1855; Luxembourg