More Than What Happened: Rediscovering Your Identity After Loss, Failure, and Estrangement - Couverture souple

Mercer, Thomas

Couverture souple

ISBN 13 : 9798192115749

Editeur : Independently published, 2026

Synopsis

What do you do when the people who know you best decide you’re no longer worth knowing?

For Thomas Mercer, the collapse was total. A former youth pastor with a blended family of five children, he watched his world shatter when past failures came to light. His children didn’t just distance themselves; they rewrote their history, issued an ultimatum, and cut him out of their lives forever. No phone calls, no grandchildren’s birthdays, no explanations. Just silence.

More Than What Happened is a raw, unflinching guide for men standing in the wreckage of family estrangement, personal failure, and loss. If you are a father who has been "voted off the island"—whether through your own mistakes or a cultural shift you don’t understand—this book is your roadmap back to yourself.

Reclaim Your Identity from the Verdict of Others

We live in an era of "no contact" and "toxic" labels, where a single chapter of your life can be used to condemn the entire book. Mercer addresses the unique masculine vulnerability of being locked out of your own family’s story. This isn't about clinical statistics or empty platitudes; it is a "heart manual" for the man sitting alone at the kitchen table, wondering if he was ever the good father he thought he was.

Inside this transformative guide, you will discover:

• The Porch Light Posture: How to stay available for reconciliation without letting your life stagnate in the dark.

• Navigating Ambiguous Loss: Strategies for grieving people who are still alive in a world that offers no funerals or casseroles for estrangement.

• Identity vs. Verdict: How to separate who you are today from the mistakes of your past.

• Releasing the Rope: The power of letting go of the struggle for control and finding peace in the unresolved.

• Accountability Without Shame: A path to honest self-forgiveness that doesn’t require the other person's permission.

This is not a book about changing the past or forcing a door open that has been bolted shut. It is about choosing who you become next. Even if the phone never rings, you can still lead a life of meaning, integrity, and strength.

Stop letting the silence define you. Read More Than What Happened and begin the slow, unglamorous, and life-saving work of rediscovering who you are.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Independently published
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798192115749
• Reliure: Broché
• Nombre de pages: 122
• Coordonnées du fabricant: Manufactured by Amazon on behalf of the author; https://www.amazon.fr/hz/contact-us; ; c/o Amazon Media EU S.à.r.l., 38 Avenue John F. Kennedy; Luxembourg; L-1855; Luxembourg