The Art of Asking Good Questions - Couverture souple

Tuffley PhD, David

Couverture souple

ISBN 13 : 9798237064247

Editeur : Altiora Publications, 2026

Synopsis

We are trained from our first days at school to produce answers, and to produce them quickly. Exams reward them, job interviews test for them, and in meetings the person with the most confident answer is routinely mistaken for the person who has thought hardest. Almost nobody teaches the harder and more valuable skill that sits upstream of every answer worth having: knowing what to ask.

The Art of Asking Good Questions sets out to correct that imbalance. Drawing on a career spanning software engineering, quality assurance, university teaching and broadcasting, David Tuffley makes a quietly provocative case. The quality of any answer has a ceiling, and that ceiling is set by the question that produced it. A brilliant mind asking mediocre questions will reliably produce mediocre answers, and because our own questions feel like the natural way of seeing things rather than choices we have made, the flaw is almost impossible to spot from the inside.

The book begins with Socrates and the Zen koan, two traditions that arrived independently at the same unfashionable conclusion: that the question is often the more sophisticated object, and the answer merely the residue it leaves behind. From there it dissects the anatomy of a question. You will learn to tell a curious question from an agenda-driven one, and to recognise the leading and loaded questions that pass for conversation in families, workplaces and political life. Why do the plainest questions so often prove the most revealing? And could it be that the person who seems to agree with you simply lacked the nerve to challenge your premise?

Tuffley then turns to the precondition most advice skips entirely. You cannot ask a good follow-up question if you stopped listening halfway through the answer, and most of us do exactly that, composing our next line while the other person is still speaking. A simple two-second pause, far harder than it sounds, reveals how much of what we call conversation is really two monologues taking turns.

The later chapters carry these ideas into the places they matter most. In close relationships, the gap between "Why did you do that?" and "What happened?" can decide whether an argument repairs or wounds. In problem-solving, a famously slow lift becomes a lesson in reframing, and the five whys expose why organisations so often abandon the method at precisely the moment it walks toward an uncomfortable truth. In leadership and teaching, the hardest discipline proves to be resisting the urge to answer your own question, and learning to wait while the room finds a better answer than yours.

Tuffley writes candidly about his own lapses, including a quietly moving account of asking his father, near the end of his life, what he truly wanted from his final months. He refuses to reduce good questioning to a formula. Instead he offers a shift in attention, a handful of habits worth unlearning, and an appendix of nine practical exercises, from the question journal to the hostile reader test, for anyone who would rather practise than simply read about the practice.

Short, wise and immediately useful, this is a book for managers and teachers, parents and partners, interviewers and researchers, and anyone who suspects their conversations could go deeper than they do. It will not hand you more answers. It will help you find the ones worth having.

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À propos de l'auteur

David Tuffley PhD is an Adjunct Senior Lecturer in Applied Ethics and Cybersecurity at Griffith University, where he has taught for over two decades. He is the founder of Altiora Publications and the author of more than 130 non-fiction titles spanning technology, ethics, and professional development. A regular technology commentator across radio, television, and print, Tuffley combines academic research with real-world consulting experience. His doctoral work produced the first process reference model for leadership as a soft skill, a thread that runs through much of his writing.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Altiora Publications
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798237064247
• Reliure: Paperback
• Nombre de pages: 48
• Coordonnées du fabricant: non disponible
• Personne responsable: non disponible