Love in Debt
The cost of silenced desire
Ailén Rodríguez Siqueira
What are you paying to be loved?
From early on, we learn that love must be earned. That we should behave, not inconvenience anyone, be grateful even for what does not nourish us. That desiring too much might threaten our belonging. Almost without noticing, we begin to love from compensation instead of freedom.
In Love in Debt, Ailén Rodríguez Siqueira explores with depth and clarity how guilt and emotional debt shape the way we bond. Through personal narrative, clinical cases, mythology and cultural analysis, she reveals how female desire has been domesticated, how sacrifice became virtue, and how many relationships are sustained more by loyalty or gratitude than by authentic choice.
This is not a manual or a confession. It is a rigorous and intimate inquiry into:
– Mortgaged eros and desire that learned to ask for permission
– Guilt as a broken compass organizing decisions and relationships
– Emotional debt and the “wonder woman” syndrome
– The misunderstanding of pleasure and the difficulty of receiving without negotiating
– The possibility of repair without self-punishment
Blending symbolic psychology, neuroscience, somatic awareness and myth, Rodríguez Siqueira shows that guilt is not identity but cultural inheritance. That sacrifice is not love. That gratitude is not the same as choice. And that desire, even when silenced, never truly disappears.
Love in Debt is both unsettling and liberating. It invites you to look at your scars with honesty, to distinguish between loyalty and self-erasure, and to gently disobey the narratives that taught you to disappear in order to be loved.
Because this book is not, in the end, about guilt.
It is about the return of desire.
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Paperback. Etat : new. Paperback. Love in DebtThe cost of silenced desireAilen Rodriguez SiqueiraWhat are you paying to be loved?From early on, we learn that love must be earned. That we should behave, not inconvenience anyone, be grateful even for what does not nourish us. That desiring too much might threaten our belonging. Almost without noticing, we begin to love from compensation instead of freedom.In Love in Debt, Ailen Rodriguez Siqueira explores with depth and clarity how guilt and emotional debt shape the way we bond. Through personal narrative, clinical cases, mythology and cultural analysis, she reveals how female desire has been domesticated, how sacrifice became virtue, and how many relationships are sustained more by loyalty or gratitude than by authentic choice.This is not a manual or a confession. It is a rigorous and intimate inquiry into: - Mortgaged eros and desire that learned to ask for permission- Guilt as a broken compass organizing decisions and relationships- Emotional debt and the "wonder woman" syndrome- The misunderstanding of pleasure and the difficulty of receiving without negotiating- The possibility of repair without self-punishmentBlending symbolic psychology, neuroscience, somatic awareness and myth, Rodriguez Siqueira shows that guilt is not identity but cultural inheritance. That sacrifice is not love. That gratitude is not the same as choice. And that desire, even when silenced, never truly disappears.Love in Debt is both unsettling and liberating. It invites you to look at your scars with honesty, to distinguish between loyalty and self-erasure, and to gently disobey the narratives that taught you to disappear in order to be loved.Because this book is not, in the end, about guilt.It is about the return of desire. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from multiple locations in the US or from the UK, depending on stock availability. N° de réf. du vendeur 9798248012848
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Taschenbuch. Etat : Neu. Neuware - Love in DebtThe cost of silenced desireAilén Rodríguez SiqueiraWhat are you paying to be loved From early on, we learn that love must be earned. That we should behave, not inconvenience anyone, be grateful even for what does not nourish us. That desiring too much might threaten our belonging. Almost without noticing, we begin to love from compensation instead of freedom.In Love in Debt, Ailén Rodríguez Siqueira explores with depth and clarity how guilt and emotional debt shape the way we bond. Through personal narrative, clinical cases, mythology and cultural analysis, she reveals how female desire has been domesticated, how sacrifice became virtue, and how many relationships are sustained more by loyalty or gratitude than by authentic choice.This is not a manual or a confession. It is a rigorous and intimate inquiry into: - Mortgaged eros and desire that learned to ask for permission- Guilt as a broken compass organizing decisions and relationships- Emotional debt and the 'wonder woman' syndrome- The misunderstanding of pleasure and the difficulty of receiving without negotiating- The possibility of repair without self-punishmentBlending symbolic psychology, neuroscience, somatic awareness and myth, Rodríguez Siqueira shows that guilt is not identity but cultural inheritance. That sacrifice is not love. That gratitude is not the same as choice. And that desire, even when silenced, never truly disappears.Love in Debt is both unsettling and liberating. It invites you to look at your scars with honesty, to distinguish between loyalty and self-erasure, and to gently disobey the narratives that taught you to disappear in order to be loved.Because this book is not, in the end, about guilt.It is about the return of desire. N° de réf. du vendeur 9798248012848
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Paperback. Etat : new. Paperback. Love in DebtThe cost of silenced desireAilen Rodriguez SiqueiraWhat are you paying to be loved?From early on, we learn that love must be earned. That we should behave, not inconvenience anyone, be grateful even for what does not nourish us. That desiring too much might threaten our belonging. Almost without noticing, we begin to love from compensation instead of freedom.In Love in Debt, Ailen Rodriguez Siqueira explores with depth and clarity how guilt and emotional debt shape the way we bond. Through personal narrative, clinical cases, mythology and cultural analysis, she reveals how female desire has been domesticated, how sacrifice became virtue, and how many relationships are sustained more by loyalty or gratitude than by authentic choice.This is not a manual or a confession. It is a rigorous and intimate inquiry into: - Mortgaged eros and desire that learned to ask for permission- Guilt as a broken compass organizing decisions and relationships- Emotional debt and the "wonder woman" syndrome- The misunderstanding of pleasure and the difficulty of receiving without negotiating- The possibility of repair without self-punishmentBlending symbolic psychology, neuroscience, somatic awareness and myth, Rodriguez Siqueira shows that guilt is not identity but cultural inheritance. That sacrifice is not love. That gratitude is not the same as choice. And that desire, even when silenced, never truly disappears.Love in Debt is both unsettling and liberating. It invites you to look at your scars with honesty, to distinguish between loyalty and self-erasure, and to gently disobey the narratives that taught you to disappear in order to be loved.Because this book is not, in the end, about guilt.It is about the return of desire. This item is printed on demand. Shipping may be from our UK warehouse or from our Australian or US warehouses, depending on stock availability. N° de réf. du vendeur 9798248012848
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