Who's Holding the Teacher?: Trauma-Informed Coaching as the Missing Link in Relational Education - Couverture souple

Tenner, MDonnell

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ISBN 13 : 9798251322675

Editeur : Independently published, 2026

Synopsis

Who Is Holding the Teacher?
Trauma-Informed Coaching as the Missing Link in Relational Education
By MDonnell Tenner

Education has spent the last decade talking about trauma-informed practices for students. Schools have invested in training around adverse childhood experiences, restorative discipline, and social-emotional learning. Teachers are asked to recognize trauma, respond with empathy, regulate classrooms, de-escalate behavior, and build relationships with students who carry heavy emotional histories.

But one critical question is rarely asked:

Who is holding the teacher?

Behind every classroom door stands an adult who is expected to absorb stress, manage emotional crises, navigate systemic pressures, and maintain composure while carrying their own personal and professional burdens. Teachers are often the first responders to student trauma, yet they themselves are rarely given structured support to process the emotional weight of the work. The result is a quiet but powerful reality in schools across the country—unaddressed teacher trauma.

Who Is Holding the Teacher? confronts this overlooked dimension of education and introduces trauma-informed coaching as the missing structure needed to sustain relational teaching. This book argues that we cannot expect educators to consistently create healing classrooms if the adults responsible for those environments are themselves operating in survival mode.

Drawing from real school experiences and leadership insight, MDonnell Tenner unpacks how chronic stress, secondary trauma, compassion fatigue, and institutional pressure gradually reshape how educators interact with students. When teachers feel unsupported, overwhelmed, or emotionally depleted, relationships with students often become transactional rather than transformational. Discipline increases, patience shrinks, and classrooms quietly shift back toward compliance instead of connection.

This book reframes that pattern not as a failure of individual educators but as a systems problem within educational leadership. Schools have invested heavily in student interventions while largely ignoring the emotional infrastructure needed to support the adults doing the work.

At the center of the book is a powerful concept: Trauma-Informed Coaching.

Rather than traditional evaluation models that focus primarily on observation and accountability, trauma-informed coaching creates structured spaces where teachers can process their experiences, reflect on relational challenges, and receive guidance that strengthens both professional practice and emotional resilience. The book introduces practical coaching frameworks that school leaders, instructional coaches, and administrators can implement to support educators in meaningful ways.

Readers will explore how trauma shows up in adult behavior, how stress influences classroom decision-making, and why relational breakdowns between teachers and students often mirror unprocessed stress within the adults themselves. Through reflective inventories, coaching models, and real-world scenarios, the book equips schools with tools to build healthier ecosystems for both educators and students.

Who Is Holding the Teacher? ultimately challenges leaders to rethink the way schools support their staff. If relational education is the goal, then relational support must extend to the adults responsible for cultivating those environments.

Because sustainable, compassionate classrooms do not begin with policies or programs.

They begin with supported educators who are no longer carrying the weight of the work alone.
By MDonnell Tenner

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Independently published
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798251322675
• Reliure: Copertina flessibile
• Nombre de pages: 159
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