When Loving You Means Losing Me: How to Escape the Echo Complex and Reclaim Your Sense of Self - Couverture rigide

Lewis Bear, Amy

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ISBN 13 : 9798341900745

Editeur : Broadleaf Books, 2026

Synopsis

A clear path back to the self for every person who feels they have become lost in their relationship.

People enter relationships looking for love, safety, and fulfillment. But sometimes closeness takes a dark turn. One partner fears intimacy and mistreats the other, first subtly, then openly. The hurt partner, confused and in pain, adopts behaviors meant to appease, desperate to regain affection or keep the peace. Gradually, they become a reflection--or echo--of their partner's fear and fall into a trap of losing themselves.

Psychotherapist Amy Lewis Bear knows this pain firsthand, and in When Loving You Means Losing Me, she clearly identifies this phenomenon as the Echo Complex. The Echo Complex is a pattern of reactive thoughts, emotions, and behaviors that an individual develops in response to their partner's fear of genuine intimacy. Rather than demonstrating love, the fearful partner pushes the other person away through distancing behaviors, manipulation, and emotional isolation. In response, the intimacy-seeking partner fights harder for connection, conforming to an inauthentic version of themselves in an effort to find acceptance. But this only leaves them feeling consumed, exhausted, and more disconnected from both their partner and themselves.

Healing, however, is possible. Amy Lewis Bear shines a piercing light on why some partners withdraw emotionally, and why molding yourself to get closer only deepens the damage. Through Amy Lewis Bear's story and the raw experiences of others whom she has helped, you will discover the hidden psychological forces that block emotional intimacy, the paradoxes that keep people stuck, and the way toward emotional safety, wholeness, and love that doesn't require you to be anyone but who you are.

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À propos de l'auteur

Amy Lewis Bear is a licensed professional counselor specializing in recovery from emotional abuse and loss of self in relationships. She approaches her counseling work from the dual perspective of a therapist and fellow survivor of psychological abuse. Her "From Charm to Harm" blog on PsychologyToday.com and her YouTube educational videos reach a broad audience, and she has been a guest expert on TV talk shows, radio networks, and other media. She lives in the foothills outside Atlanta with her husband.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: Broadleaf Books
• Date d'édition: 2026
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798341900745
• Reliure: Relié
• Nombre de pages: 260
• Coordonnées du fabricant: non disponible
• Personne responsable: non disponible