The Consequence of Choice: My Inside Voice - Couverture souple

Pilgrim, Bernard R.

Couverture souple

ISBN 13 : 9798986844411

Editeur : SOURSOP PRESS, 2023

Synopsis

The Consequence of Choice

Have you ever wondered why your relationships keep falling apart? Why is marriage no longer seen as an appealing requirement or the ultimate goal of dating and relationships? Or why the broken pieces between sex, love, and fidelity never seem to fit together?

The Consequence of Choice guides us through a unique exploration of relationship conflicts, viewed through women’s romantic decisions and their desired outcomes. It also examines how men interpret women’s choices, whether men’s reactions are instinctive, and how their actions often fail to align with the ideal goals women pursue.

The author, Bernard R. Pilgrim, who has been married for twenty-six years, believes that by critically examining our assumptions about dating, relationships, and marriage, we can gain a deeper understanding and more effectively embrace fidelity and intimacy. Making our dating choices based on reality rather than unrealistic expectations can help us avoid negative consequences.

• “Chivalry wasn’t about you; you reaped the benefits of it. It was about the training of men to evolve into seeing you not just as sexual beings to be conquered but as wives and mothers of their children.”
• “You’ve always been complete as women, never lacking in anything. Your divine feminine purpose was, and still is, to inspire men to protect and serve those they love.”
• Men are not dogs. You can’t buy their loyalty and love. Your sexual treats might temporarily hypnotize men. However, their financial generosity could be purely transactional. Sex in exchange for monetary gifts.
• We are responsible for all the choices we make and the potential outcomes, and we shouldn’t blame others for our failures.
• “If most of the men you’ve dated have treated you as one-night stands, friends with benefits, or placeholders, and none have committed to you in marriage, your dating/relationship market value may be limited to sex in their eyes.”
• “Lamentably, if all we have in our relationships is Netflix and chill, then we have nothing.”

Some of the topics discussed are:

• Why do men cheat?
• The Miseducation of Sexual Freedom
• The Real You and The Scale of Beauty
• The Bait and Switch
• The Apathy of Parasitic Relationships
• The Training of Men
• An Equation of Love
• The Puppet Master
• The Church of Fashion and Beauty
• The Sins of Mothers
• The Sins of Fathers
• The Church Girl
• The Distasteful Exploits of Men

Join the author as he takes us on this journey into The Consequence of Choice.

A propos du livre

À propos de l'auteur

Bernard R. Pilgrim was born in Barbados, the land of blue seas, white sand, rum, and calypso. During his early years, he attended a religious school and became interested in questioning religious beliefs and social issues. Bernard was a gifted musician, singer, songwriter, and choir director who performed in various local and international festivals. He later moved to New York City, opening a recording studio and running his private contracting business for several years. Despite his diverse experiences, he never anticipated that his skills in composing music, writing song lyrics, and creating corporate documents would lead him to literary work. However, his keen observations of romantic relationships and numerous conversations with family, friends, and acquaintances have given him unique insights into the complexities of modern relationships. These insights inspired his first book, The Consequence of Choice: My Inside Voice.

Détails de l'édition

• Éditeur: SOURSOP PRESS
• Date d'édition: 2023
• Langue: anglais
• ISBN 13: 9798986844411
• Reliure: Broché
• Nombre de pages: 322
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