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1. Believe in the Big
2. Be Faithful in the Little
3. Enjoy the Journey
4. Endure the Adventure
5. Embrace Each Moment
6. Be Joyful in Hope
7. Be Patient in Affliction
8. Be Faithful in Prayer
9. Hit Pause
10. Listen Well
11. Rest Well
12. Don’t Endure Life Alone
13. Select Times to Be Alone
14. Forgive Everyone of Everything
15. Agree to Disagree
16. View Obstacles as Opportunities
17. Don’t Trust Your Feelings
18. Cry When You Need To
19. Laugh Often
20. Don’t Be Controlled by Past Hurts
21. Serve the Right Way in the Right Place for the Right Reasons
22. Leave the Right Way at the Right Time for the Right Reasons
23. Allow Time for Grief
24. Celebrate Regularly and Appropriately
25. Exercise the Body and the Brain
26. Care but Don’t Carry
27. Seek Help
28. Schedule Time for Nothingness
29. Give Thanks
30. Love Everybody Everywhere
31. Live in the Divine Romance

Thirty-one is an odd number.

That is how life is. Odd. Not even or simple or predictable.

Estimated time of arrival is just that, it is estimated. Expectations are not always met.

I want a balanced and structured plan. I want to stick with the plan and complete it. I want to then move on to the next plan and complete it. Early. Successfully.

But as I walk toward that goal, the sidewalk ends. As I swim toward the shore, the waves intensify. As I believe this is the day or the week or the month or the year, my schedule doesn’t have the final word.

The perfectly structured and balanced life I thought I wanted and needed isn’t realistic or effective or healthy. So, instead of waiting for the external world to calm down, I am learning to adjust to life’s lack of steadiness. I keep a list of ways I can find balance in the uneven surfaces of life. I am including many of them in these stories and thoughts.

They help me adjust to how life is. I hope they help you adjust to how life is.

Equilibrium is about finding our own balance.

“Chris Maxwell is nothing if not creative, but his is that particularly winsome brand of creativity that causes the reader to see it, whatever it is, from a different angle. We live a dark and confusing world. Maxwell’s prose and his poetry are just the antidote you’ve been looking for—creative, a bit capricious, and wonderfully uplifting.”

—-Mark Rutland, Executive Director, National Institute of Christian Leadership