“Men more likely to be dumped, women more likely to do the dumping” YouGovAmerica Poll
While most men can feel in their guts that something isn’t right, they almost never learn the specific reason for it, and enter their next relationship equally unprepared. Why Women Pull Away offers a clear view of female nature that women just want men to know.
Knowledge helps men respond to women’s tests, but it’s not enough by itself. Men need clear action steps, when under pressure, to avoid denials, deflections, or defenses that highlight their weaknesses.
As Neurobiologist Andrew Huberman says, “It’s hard for the mind to control the mind.” Confidence-destroying triggers don’t answer to logic. They crash normal functioning. Specific practiced behaviors pull the masculine back from the abyss before a turnoff is registered.
Knowing what to do eliminates fear and delivers megatons of energy.
The feminine seeks what it needs to stay sexually attracted. This is nature in action. It’s counter-productive to resent it and fight it. Why Women Pull Away describes in detail the masculine that women look for and how easy it is to provide. It’s even beneficial, like exercise.
When a man’s default masculinity proves inadequate, he quickly becomes overwhelmed by increasing pressure. The stress of defeat drags heavily on mind and body and degrades communication with his lover, partner, or spouse.
In this way, men unintentionally crush female sexual desire.
Both sexes brim with confidence and hope, at first, but men’s legacy fears and insecurities eventually come to the fore. Women can’t stop themselves from being turned off by this. Something must be done, immediately.
Fortunately, the go-to behaviors described in Why Women Pull Away are genetically encoded in men and exactly what women want. They’re also not in conflict with concepts from the Manosphere or any dating and relationship styles.
In fact, relationship skills increase a man’s value. That’s a needed edge, just to prepare for nature’s practical jokes, self-destructive impulses, women’s three primary needs, and the serotonin factor.
An hour of reading can change a man’s life.
"We all default to our instincts, and then we’re unhappy with the results. The first step to getting what we want is by understanding what we are doing, or not doing, that is getting in our own way. This books cuts through the fog and spells out the simple solutions. It could probably save you thousands of dollars in couples therapy.” – Amazon Review
Seva Kenn lives in Sedona, Arizona, known for it's world-class red-rock formations, and New Age subculture. But on the numerous sunny days, Seva chooses mountain biking over vortexes. He is grateful for his forty-plus years of yoga, meditation, and tantra practice in preparation for working three years at the Sedona Temple as a sexual healing practitioner.
But Seva is firmly grounded in practical reality, including a degree in psychology (BS, University of Oregon) and extensive training in Re-Evaluation Counseling.
Working on the front lines of relationship conflict filled Seva's well of empathy for the emotional injuries everyone collects along their sexual journey. It's unavoidable that something hidden under the surface will come up. From the misunderstanding of a single word, to angry rebukes and slammed doors, uncontrollable reactions rock every couple's boat. Nno one is prepared when that happens.
Seva helps intimate partners see how the smallest emotional triggers become major issues. Understanding, in addtion to changed habits, makes sustained, life-affirming relationships possible.
