SELLER'S NOTE TO INTERNATIONAL (NON CANADA OR USA) BUYERS: Additional shipping charges will be required and requested during the purchase process of this title. Light Creasing on Front, Rear Covers, Spine; Front, Rear Covers, Spine Lightly Chipped; Moderate Yellowing Due to Age. Jean Baer, co-author of the bestselling DON'T SAY YES WHEN YOU WANT TO SAY NO. SUB-TITLE: A Total Guide to Self-Assertiveness. BOOK NUMBER: 451E8531. CONTENTS: Acknowledgments; Introduction: The Salespeople Always Called Me Jean 1. Assertiveness Training--and Why Women Particularly Need It 2. Just Like You and Me 3. Spotting Your Own Assertive Blocks 4. Exercise Class 5. Handling Criticism, Compliments, and Anger 6. Asserting Yourself Socially 7. Coming of Age: New Courtship Patterns for Singles 8. Getting Closer in the Close Relationship 9. The Sexually Assertive Woman 10. Assertion and Children 11. Getting Where and What You Want at Work 12. Conclusion; Appendix; Bibliography; Index; About the Author. SYNOPSIS: Are you a portrait of a "lady"--or are you a person? Are you too embarrassed to tell your lover what you really want in bed? Are you self-conscious about going to a party alone? Are you sitting in the same job for years, doing excellent work, but receiving only limited raises and no promotions? Are you unable to ask for a better table in a restaurant when you've been placed next to the kitchen? Are you allowing your husband, lover, or child to take advantage of you? Learn how to express your opinions and wishes, and stand up for your rights with these revolutionary new techniques of assertiveness training. - and - THE OLD WAY - Dependency Training: "A woman should know her place" "Don't talk too much about yourself--be interested in his hobbies." "Don't let him know how smart you are." "You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar." "A woman should be passive." "A woman should be compliant." THE NEW WAY - Assertiveness Training: "Assertive women give the feeling they're more confident of their femininity and sexuality." "With an assertive woman, you don't have to play games--you're two adults." "An assertive woman knows that femininity is not passivity." "Men don't want relationships with frail baby dolls--they want the excitement of a fully-grown woman." Learn how to get where and what you want in bed, at work, on the social scene, and at home. Daughter of a newspaperman, Jean Baer grew up in Mount Vernon, New York, and was graduated from Cornell University. She has worked for the Mutual Broadcasting Company, the United States Information Agency, and spent many years as senior editor and special projects director at Seventeen magazine. She is the author of four previous books: Follow Mel, The Single Girl Goes to Town, The Second Wife, and Don't Say Yes When You Want to Say No (co-authored with husband, Dr. Herbert Fensterheim, this book won an award from the American Psychological Association for "a noteworthy contribution to the public's understanding of psychology"). In addition, she is a frequent contributor to major magazines and newspapers on contemporary problems of women. Size: 12mo - over 6�" - 7�" tall.

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How to Be an Assertive (Not Aggressive) Woman in Life, in Love, and on the Job

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A Signet Book The New American Library of Canada Limited, Scarborough

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Mass Market Paperback

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First Thus 1st Printing.

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