Intimate Enemy, The
Bach, George R., Dr. and Wyden, Peter
Langue : anglais
Edité par Avon Books A division of The Hearst Corporation, New York, 1983
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- Occasion
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Light Creasing on Rear Cover; Moderate Creasing on Front Cover, Spine; Front, Rear Covers, Spine Moderately Chipped; Moderate Spine Roll; Edges Lightly Soiled; Heavy Yellowing Due to Age. The million-copy bestseller by the author of Pairing and Creative Aggression. SUB-TITLE: How to fight fair in love and marriage. BOOK NUMBER: 58719. ALSO KNOWN AS: Excerpts from this book have appeared in the Ladies' Home Journal under the title, Marital Fighting. CONTENTS: 1. Why Intimates Must Fight 2. Fighting For (and Against) Intimacy 3. Training Lovers to be Fighters 4. Getting a Good Fight Started 5. When and Where to Fight 6. How to Fight a Fair Fight 7. Male and Female Fight Styles 8. Ending a Good Fight 9. Bad Fighters and How to Reform Them 10. When Words Fail: Fighting with Fists and Fingernails 11. The Language of Love: Communications Fights 12. Fighting By Mail and Telephone 13. Dirty and Sick Fighters and How to Stop Them 14. How to Score Intimate Fights 15. Fighting Over "Trivia" 16. The Dream: Courtship Fights 17. Fighting for Realistic Romance 18. Sex as a Fighting Word 19. Fighting Before, During, and After Sex 20. Marital Fights About Extramarital Sex 21. Fight With (and About) Children 22. When Kids Fight Back 23. Family Fights 24. Exit Fights 25. Manifesto for Intimate Living; Technical Appendix; The Impact Theory of Aggression; Bibliography; Index. SYNOPSIS: Fight--But Fight Fair! Your love depends on it! The "gunnysacker"--He keeps his grudges secret and nurses them along, until a trivial incident provokes his anger and bursts the "gunnysack"--and all the ugliness he's stored up comes pouring out. The "gaslighter"--Her pent-up aggression dribbles out in destructive sniping at her partner. But when he protests, she denies it--and tells him he's nus. The "scapegoater"--He blames her for "indulging" the kids, but he's really furious with her because their sex life is lousy--and with himself because he can't talk about it. The "belt-line faker"--She derails every potential argument with "I can't take it when you yell at me"--and derails the process of intimacy as well. Don't let love die. Fight! But use the rules for "Fair Fighting" set down by bestselling author Dr. George R. Bach. Take insult and injury out of conflict, and you'll win new joy, understanding and growth in a relationship. - and - EVEN IF YOU "LOSE" THE FIGHT, YOU WIN!--as long as you fight fair! You may know couples who wrangle continually, in unproductive, embarrassing ways--in fact, you may be in that kind of relationship yourself--but the answer isn't to stop fighting. The answer is to fight often, to fight hard . . . and to fight fair! Now Dr. George R. Bach and Peter Wyden have de-fused the bombs which poison battles between intimates, in a book that tells why couples who fight together stay together--if they use the right fight techniques. THE INTIMATE ENEMY explores the rules of the "Fair Fight" through clear, easy-to-understand analyses of over a hundred case histories and actual fights, plus the authors' own skilled observations on couples who either can't fight, or who "go for the jugular" when they do fight. Here are the rules for fair, healthy fights which will promote understanding and intimacy in every relationship! AWARDS: Selected by the Book-of-the-Month Club. Size: 12mo - over 6¾" - 7¾" tall. …
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- Titre
- Intimate Enemy, The
- Auteur
- Bach, George R., Dr. and Wyden, Peter
- Éditeur
- Avon Books A division of The Hearst Corporation, New York
- Année de publication
- 1983
- État de l'article
- Good
- Reliure
- Mass Market Paperback
- Langue
- anglais
- ISBN à 10 chiffres
- 0380003929
- ISBN à 13 chiffres
- 9780380003921
- Édition
- First Thus 26th Printing.
- Catalogues du vendeur
- Self-Help - Relationships - Romantic
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